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The Effects of Failed Relationships/Marriages on Children

You might have dreamt at one time of having the perfect marriage or relationship that would last a lifetime. What you did not realize is how much work it takes to maintain either one. Then if you add kids into the equation everything changes. If everything seems to be crumbling between you both then maybe it is time for rebuilding the relationship.

When you have children you may find yourself staying in the marriage because you think it is the best thing you can do for the kids. The think you might not realize is the kids can see your emotions all over your face and they tend to react to that. If you and your spouse do a lot of fighting the children can hear this and tend to act out when they are away from the home. When children go to school they might be getting in trouble more often or they might even take up running with the wrong crowd. This is because they are not happy being around all the fighting but do not know how to talk to someone about what they are feeling inside.

If you have children and find yourself staying in the relationship/marriage that is bad for everyone you are teaching the children something. They will think when they grow up it is okay to yell and fight with the one they love. If there is abuse in the relationship then the children could grow up and find themselves in an abusive relationship also.

When a relationship/marriage ends then the children have to be taken into consideration. If both parties can come to a simple agreement and keep the children out of the middle then the children will be able to heal much quicker. If the break up is nasty and the children are drug through the middle of everything then it could take years for them to be able to move on and be happy with the outcome of the parents.

One thing to remember is the children were a part of the home also. They seen everything that went on at the house on a daily bases. Do not turn your back on the children when the dust settles. From the moment both parties decide to end a marriage or even a relationship this is the time for rebuilding the relationship with the children. Let them know everything will be okay and they will still get to see the other parent. Talk with them often and if the children do not seem like they are doing better after a short time then take them in so they can talk with a professional. This will let them get their feelings out and they will not have to worry about hurting either parent.

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